Book Review: “Couples Who Pray” by Squire Rushnell and Louise Duart

“Couples Who Pray” by Squire Rushnell and Louise Duart

On occasions we find books that change us. Books that cause us to reflect on our own thoughts and actions. Books that challenge us to evaluate our own ideals. “Couples Who Pray” changed my heart. Of course, praying with your spouse is extremely important; of course, it is a vulnerable act, but is it really the most intimate act you can have with your spouse?

When I first read that statement I was hesitant to believe it. However, over time I have come not only to agree with it, but I am humbled by it as well. Many people would agree that marriage can be difficult, but not all would say that prayer is the secret elixir to cure an ailing marriage. This book proves their hypothesis with various stories from many couples that are well known and who are holding on to their marriages, trusting, communicating, and proving that this challenge has some validity.

This book is not a snob appeal to brag about their success; while the rest of the world seems to have gotten it wrong. Instead, it is an open testimony that these couples are choosing to share with the world. They are not claiming to have all of the answers; neither are they spilling the juicy details of their marriages. The couples mentioned are letting go of their busy hectic lives, thinking positive about each other, and putting God first, together. That’s it. For at least 5 minutes a day they are focusing on blessings, on positives, on triumphs and highlighting the best in their spouse before God.

For me, the premise behind the book makes perfect sense, if God can see the best in me, in return I am suppose to return that same grace to my spouse and see the best in others as well. The result of the positive being accentuated has an amazing affect on us. We become better people, kinder, more loving, more trustworthy etc. Overall, I am left with a challenge to let my husband know how much I appreciate the good in him; while at the same time trying to grow closer to God.

Would I recommend this book? Absolutely. Although we have not taken the 40 day prayer challenge, I know that when we are ready to, astounding results will follow. One of the passages that sticks with me  is “The intimacy of couples praying is like none other . . . For instance, no one on earth feels exactly the same way I feel about our children–except my husband. My husband is, therefore, my covering. Our joint prayers create not only a greater closeness, but they build a fortress of protection around us”  (pg. 116).

Marriage is one thing in life that no one has all of the answers to. Every married couple on this planet is on a path trying to figure things out as they go along. Prayer just helps us walk side-by-side  in the same direction.

Disclosure: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze®.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255

Share this Story

Facebook Comments

  • Thanks for stopping by The Moxie Bee (, following me on Twitter @TheAllieJay and GFC. I’ve returned the favor on Twitter & on here. I was so excited to see your entries for the Shutterfly Custom Path Photo Books. They really are very high quality books.

    I really like your site and appreciate your positivity.

    • Thanks for the kind words, they are very much appreciated. Also, thanks for the Shutterfly code, I can’t wait to get my photo book.

  • This books looks great! I love reading books with my husband and this seems like a great choice. Right now we are reading Character Construction, a great book as well. This will be next! Thank you!

    • Thanks for visiting my site again. Yes, I liked the book, but I have read what some critics have said about the book. They say that prayer alone cannot be the only answer. This book does focuses on prayer as the core solution, but I think it is saying much more than just pray together. I gather that when you both are invested in prayer together and you start seeing your spouse in the most positive light you can, your marriage will improve. If you both read it, I would love to hear your thoughts.

Check Also

10 Must Have Summer Camp Items

This post is sponsored by Summer is ...


The St. Jude